Cook the brown rice with the coconut milk, salt and 3 cups water using your preferred method (team rice cooker over here).
Cumin Broccoli Slaw
In a large bowl, mix the vinegar and salt. Add the broccoli and toss.
In a small bowl, combine the oil, garlic and cumin. Microwave for 1 minute; it should be fragrant. Stir in the sesame oil. Alternatively, you can do this on the stovetop, but why?
Pour the oil over the broccoli and toss well. Let marinate for at least 1 hour.
Carrot Quick Pickles
Combine everything in a small bowl. Let marinate for 10-15 minutes.
Cilantro-Lime Cabbage Slaw
Combine everything.
Pan-Fried Tofu
Cut the tofu in half crosswise, then cut the tofu into 1/2" thick slices. Salt both sides of the tofu lightly.
In a large skillet over medium-high heat, heat some oil. Add the tofu and cook in batches until golden-brown on both sides.
Assembly
Divide the rice, cumin broccoli slaw, pan-fried tofu, quick pickles and cilantro-lime cabbage slaw between 4 bowls. Sprinkle with the coconut. Serve warm or at room temperature.
This recipe is a bit of a beast in terms of how many components there are, but they're more time intensive than hard. You can make some things in advance, or scale back on how many vegetable sides you'd like.
You can omit the fish sauce in the cilantro-lime cabbage slaw if you want to keep this vegan. You may need to add more soy sauce or salt.